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Dramatic threat — 같이 죽어 버리자
1:11
Self-harm
Gyumin shouts that he'll die together with Jina. In Korean melodrama and in real-life conflict, threatening a mutual death (동반자살, dongban-jaSal) is an extreme emotional pressure tactic. It's meant to trap the other person with guilt rather than as a literal plan, but it still counts as a serious threat under Korean law.
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Visiting a friend's home uninvited
4:13
Junhee tells Jina's parents he's there to 'install something on Seungho's computer' — a face-saving excuse Koreans call a 핑계 (ping-gye). Dropping by without warning is less common among adults now, but among close family-friend circles it's still socially acceptable, and a small white lie smooths the awkwardness.
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족보 (jokbo) — family genealogy
15:37
Miyeon worries about Junhee's family 족보 (jokbo), the traditional clan genealogy record that Korean families have kept for centuries. Even today, a family's history of divorce, scandal, or instability can quietly affect whether parents approve of a marriage match — it's old-fashioned but the concern is real.
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혼술 (honsul) — drinking alone
24:48
Junhee teases Gyeongseon by calling her the 'queen of 혼술' (honsul — solo drinking). The word blends 혼자 (alone) and 술 (alcohol) and became a popular trend word in the 2010s. Drinking alone at home, often with a TV drama on, is widely relatable in Korea and carries no strong stigma.
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Father's legacy and distrust of love
25:54
Gyeongseon says distrust of love is the only inheritance she got from her father. In Korean family culture, a parent's 바람기 (baramgi — tendency to cheat or wander) is seen as a shameful family trait that can cast a shadow over grown children's own relationships and marriage prospects.
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데이트 통장 — couple's shared bank account
28:24
Jina mentions a 데이트 통장 (date tongjiang), a joint account couples open specifically to pool money for dates and outings. It's a common relationship milestone in Korea, symbolising commitment and financial transparency — the Korean equivalent of 'going halves' but formalised at the bank.
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청국장 (cheonggukjang) — fermented soybean stew
37:54
Dongwoo orders 청국장 (cheonggukjang) for the table — a powerfully pungent, fast-fermented soybean paste stew, thicker and stronger-smelling than the milder doenjang-jjigae. It's a staple of everyday Korean lunch spots and signals they're eating at an unpretentious neighbourhood restaurant, not somewhere fancy.
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진달래꽃 — famous Korean poem turned karaoke classic
52:38
The group sings lyrics from 진달래꽃 (Azalea), a 1922 poem by Kim Sowol set to music. Lines about silently letting a lover go and scattering azalea petals on their path are among the most memorised verses in Korean literary history. Hearing it at a 노래방 (noraebang — karaoke room) is a very common and emotional crowd moment.
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탬버린 (tambourine) as a relationship clue
54:21
The tambourine sitting in the office hallway is a 노래방 prop — these small percussion instruments are standard equipment in Korean karaoke rooms. Seungcheol immediately recognises it as something Junhee brought back from a late-night 노래방 outing, which is why it tips him off that something is going on.
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축하합니다 (Congratulations) sung as a joke
59:00
Seungcheol drunkenly belts out 축하합니다 (chukha hamnida — congratulations) in the sing-song melody Koreans use at birthday parties and celebrations. Singing it at someone is a playful, slightly teasing way of marking a big moment — here it's his tipsy, exaggerated reaction to finding out his friend has a secret girlfriend.
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졸도 (joldo) — fainting as a comic hyperbole
62:15
Seungho predicts their mum's first reaction will be '기본이 졸도' — basically 'fainting is guaranteed.' Koreans often use 졸도 (passing out from shock) as a hyperbolic expression for extreme surprise or disapproval. It signals the parents haven't been prepared at all, and the news will feel like it came out of nowhere.
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한의원 (hanuiwon) — traditional Korean medicine clinic
68:50
Jina's mum is out taking Seungho to a 한의원 (hanuiwon), a licensed clinic for traditional Korean medicine — herbal remedies, acupuncture, and cupping. Koreans routinely visit them alongside regular hospitals, especially for fatigue, growing pains in teenagers, or chronic aches. It's as ordinary as a trip to the pharmacy.
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아버지의 반응 — the father's quiet acceptance
70:21
Rather than exploding, Jina's dad calmly asks where Junhee is. In Korean family dramas the 아버지 (father) often plays the quieter, more forgiving role compared to the louder 어머니 (mother). His measured response follows a well-known cultural pattern where fathers absorb difficult news more privately, even when deeply affected.