Culture Notes 2021

S1E6 — Korean Culture Notes

12 timestamped notes explaining the Korean cultural context in this episode — customs, idioms, food, honorifics, and history, at the moment each appears on screen. These notes discuss events across the whole episode. To see them revealed scene-by-scene as you watch, use the episode page to find an airing.

# 사장님 (Sajangnim) — calling a stranger 'boss'

0:36

사장님 (sajangnim) literally means 'company president' or 'boss,' but Koreans routinely use it as a polite, flattering address for any adult customer or person of higher status — even a stranger asking for help with their golf bag. It's a social lubricant, not a literal job title.

# Legal guardianship and criminal records in Korea

3:53

In Korea, a court-appointed 후견인 (hugyeonin), or legal guardian, oversees the welfare of someone who cannot fully manage their own affairs. Namu is alarmed because she assumes a person with a violent past would be legally barred from holding this role — but Korean law evaluates guardians case by case, and a past incident that did not result in a homicide conviction does not automatically disqualify someone.

# 개똥도 약에 쓸 때가 있다 — Korean proverb

7:42

미란 says the proverb '개똥도 약에 쓸 때가 있다,' which translates roughly as 'Even dog dung has its uses as medicine.' It's the Korean equivalent of 'every cloud has a silver lining' or 'nothing is completely useless' — a backhanded acknowledgment that Sang-gu actually came in handy.

# 주문 vs. 의뢰 — order vs. commission

8:40

Geu-ru gently corrects Sang-gu's word choice: 주문 (jumun) is what you place when ordering chicken delivery, while 의뢰 (uiroe) means a formal commission or professional request. The distinction matters to Geu-ru because Move to Heaven's work is a serious service with dignity attached to it, not a takeout transaction.

# 동반자살 (Dongban jasal) — couple suicide pact

13:24 Self-harm

동반자살 (dongban jasal) refers to two people choosing to die together. It has a long cultural history in Korea, sometimes romanticised in older literature, but is now treated as a serious public-health and legal issue. Sang-gu's angry challenge — whether the wife truly consented — reflects the real ethical and criminal debate around whether the survivor (or instigator) can be held responsible.

This note discusses suicide or self-injury. If you need someone to talk to: in Korea call 109, in the US call or text 988, or find a helpline in your country.

# 옥탑방 (Okdapbang) — rooftop rooms

19:27

Sang-gu notes the apartment feels like an 옥탑방 (okdapbang) — a small room or unit built on a building's rooftop. These are among Seoul's most affordable urban dwellings, often with no elevator access, poor insulation, and sweltering summers. They are a common shorthand in Korean drama for financial hardship.

# 사자 명예훼손 (Saja myeongyehweeson) — defamation of the deceased

26:59

Korea has a specific legal concept called 사자 명예훼손, defamation of a deceased person. Under Korean law, spreading false information that damages a dead person's reputation can be a criminal offence, not just a civil one. Yoo-rim uses it to put Sang-gu in his place for publicly calling the dead man a killer without knowing the full story.

# 췌장암 말기 — terminal pancreatic cancer

30:25

췌장암 (chwejangam) is pancreatic cancer, notorious in Korea as elsewhere for being detected late and carrying a very poor prognosis. The reveal reframes everything the viewer saw in the opening scene: In-su's physical strain, his discharge against medical advice, and the carefully timed phone call to Move to Heaven all make sense as the deliberate, lucid plan of a man who knew exactly how little time he had left.

# 꽃말 (Kkot-mal) — the language of flowers

36:33

꽃말 (kkot-mal) literally means 'flower words' — the symbolic meaning assigned to each flower, equivalent to the Victorian 'language of flowers.' Koreans take these meanings seriously for gifting occasions. Geu-ru reciting each plant's kkot-mal as he carries them into the funeral hall is his way of narrating what In-su's decades of quiet love looked like in botanical form.

# 명함 (Myeongham) — the business card as a life record

40:01

명함 (myeongham), the Korean business card, carries rank and company name and is exchanged with two hands as a mark of respect. In-su's old cards spanning 1981 대리 (junior manager) to 1998 부장 (general manager) are a compact autobiography of his working life. When the elderly chairman pockets the card and says he will keep it a long time, he is honouring that entire career.

# 이형기 「낙화」— the poem recited at the end

42:32

In-su recites 「낙화」(Falling Blossoms), a beloved poem by Korean poet 이형기 (Lee Hyeong-gi, 1933–2005). The poem uses the image of petals falling at the perfect moment as a metaphor for a beautiful, chosen departure. It is widely memorised by older Korean generations and is sometimes read at funerals — here In-su uses it as a private farewell, recited to his sleeping wife.

# 달리아 꽃말 — dahlia flower meaning

46:49

The dahlia's 꽃말 (kkot-mal, flower meaning) in Korea is '당신의 마음을 알아서 기쁩니다' — 'I am glad to know your heart.' Geu-ru choosing this particular flower for Sang-gu is no accident: it is a gentle, precise signal that Geu-ru has noticed his uncle's slowly softening feelings, even though Sang-gu will absolutely deny it.

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