Culture Notes 2024

S1E13 — Korean Culture Notes

10 timestamped notes explaining the Korean cultural context in this episode — customs, idioms, food, honorifics, and history, at the moment each appears on screen. These notes discuss events across the whole episode. To see them revealed scene-by-scene as you watch, use the episode page to find an airing.

# 약혼 (Engagement) culture

1:37

In Korea, a broken engagement (파혼, pa-hon) carries real social weight — it can affect a family's reputation and a person's marriage prospects. Yura frames herself as a wronged party rather than simply an ex, because in Korean social logic, a stolen fiancé is a more serious grievance than a broken dating relationship.

# 고래 싸움에 새우 등 터진다 — proverb

2:59

Min-hwan quotes the classic Korean proverb '고래 싸움에 새우 등 터진다' — literally 'when whales fight, the shrimp's back gets torn.' It means ordinary people get crushed by conflicts between the powerful. Yura then flips the image, saying she wants to be a shrimp that hunts whales.

# 민물새우 (freshwater shrimp) insult

3:15

Calling someone a '민물새우' (freshwater shrimp) goes beyond the whale-shrimp proverb. Freshwater shrimp are smaller, cheaper, and far less impressive than sea shrimp. Yura is saying Min-hwan is not just a small fish — he is the most insignificant, lowest-grade version of small.

# 기일 (death anniversary memorial day)

22:39

A '기일' (gi-il) is the yearly anniversary of a person's death and is treated as a solemn family obligation in Korean culture. Adult children are expected to visit the grave or hold a small ceremony. The villains are exploiting Ji-won's certain trip to her father's memorial as a predictable moment to target her.

# 수목장 (natural woodland burial)

24:19

'수목장' (sumokjang) is a type of burial where ashes are placed at the root of a designated tree in a forest, rather than in a conventional cemetery. It has grown popular in Korea as a greener, quieter alternative to traditional plots. Ji-won visits a 수목장 to see her late father's resting place.

# Ji-hyuk's voicemail confession — time-travel reveal

25:53

Ji-hyuk leaves this message on Ji-won's voicemail because he believes he may not survive to say it in person. The confession that he 'died in 2023' is the show's core time-travel premise spoken aloud for the first time directly to Ji-won — up to this point she has not heard his version of events.

# 어릴 때 부모의 외도 (parents' affair affecting children)

39:30

Su-min reveals that her father and Ji-won's mother had an affair when both girls were 14, splitting both households. In Korean culture, a parent's 바람 (baram — affair) is considered a family shame that children often carry silently. This backstory reframes the entire decade of Su-min's hostility toward Ji-won.

# 실장님 (Sil-jang-nim) — Seok-jun's rank and character

51:09

'실장님' is the honorific for a department or division head — a senior management title. Seok-jun, who holds this rank at U&K, is usually all business, so his outburst urging Ju-ran to march back and physically attack her cheating husband is played as a comic contrast to his normally composed, calculating personality.

# 수석 셰프 (Head Chef) title and restaurant hierarchy

53:17

백은호 introduces himself as '수석 셰프' — head or executive chef — a title that in Korean fine-dining culture signals the person with full creative and operational control of a kitchen. His calm, formal self-introduction in the middle of what is clearly a charged confrontation is a deliberate power move.

# 내 운명 옮기기 — transferring one's fate

59:06

Ji-won tells Ji-hyuk that her 운명 (unmyeong — fate or destiny) now seems to have shifted to Yang Jae-won. This echoes the drama's central premise that fates from a previous timeline can be redirected onto different people. It also sets up the next plot move: Ji-won plans to redirect the danger aimed at herself onto someone who deserves it.

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