Culture Notes 2020

The Days I Was Forgotten — Korean Culture Notes

12 timestamped notes explaining the Korean cultural context in this episode — customs, idioms, food, honorifics, and history, at the moment each appears on screen. These notes discuss events across the whole episode. To see them revealed scene-by-scene as you watch, use the episode page to find an airing.

# 닭발 (Dak-bal) — Spicy Chicken Feet

1:31

닭발 (dak-bal) literally means 'chicken feet,' and it's a beloved Korean street and pojangmacha snack, braised or grilled in a fiery red pepper sauce. It's known for being one of Korea's most intensely spicy dishes — a badge of honour for heat lovers. The gang's competitive back-and-forth about who can handle the spice is a classic Korean social ritual: sharing spicy food is a way to bond and show off toughness.

# 콩순이 (Kongsuni) — Children's TV Character

7:57

콩순이 (Kongsuni) is a hugely popular Korean animated character — a cheerful little girl with a round head and bright colours, aimed at toddlers. She's been a staple on Korean children's TV since the late 2000s, and practically every Korean child of Seo-woo's age knows her songs by heart. Yoo-ri dancing and singing along captures how deeply she has immersed herself in Seo-woo's world.

# 무당 and 퇴마사 — Korean Spirit Specialists

16:49

무당 (mudang) are traditional Korean shamans, typically women, who communicate with spirits and perform rituals called 굿 (gut). 퇴마사 (toema-sa) are exorcists — practitioners who drive out harmful spirits, drawing on a blend of folk religion and sometimes Christian influence. Both figures are part of a long tradition in Korean folk belief, and the drama treats their rivalry over Yoo-ri's case as a very real turf war.

# 49일 (49 Days) — Buddhist Mourning Period

20:56

In Korean Buddhist and folk tradition, a person's soul is believed to wander for exactly 49 days after death before moving on to the next world. During this period, weekly memorial rites are sometimes held, and the soul is considered especially present in the living world. The drama has used this 49-day window as its central deadline, and here it comes up again as the clock ticking down on Yoo-ri's remaining time.

# 곰국 (Gomguk) — Long-simmered Bone Broth

23:18

곰국 (gomguk) is a rich, milky white soup made by boiling beef bones for many hours — sometimes overnight. In Korean households it is considered a deeply restorative, loving dish, reserved for someone who needs special care or is returning from a long absence. Seeding the dinner table with it signals that Eun-suk has quietly, tenderly prepared something just for Yoo-ri, which is why the siblings tease her about playing favourites.

# Ghosts Don't Appear in Photos — Korean Folk Belief

25:19

A persistent belief in Korean (and broader East Asian) folk culture holds that ghosts cannot be captured by a camera — they either appear as a blur, a light anomaly, or simply not at all. When the photo comes back completely white and the three women are absent from it, the drama is playing this superstition for both laughs and pathos: the image reveals exactly which one of the three is not fully of the living world.

# '동물농장' (Animal Farm) — Long-running TV Show

31:00

'동물농장' (Dongmul Nongiang, literally 'Animal Farm') is a beloved Sunday variety show on SBS that has aired since 2001, featuring stories of remarkable or rescued animals submitted by viewers. Yeon-ji's joking suggestion to call in a tip about Popo the dog is a very Korean pop-culture reflex — if your pet does something uncanny, you tell Animal Farm.

# 자살귀 (Jasalgwi) — The Ghost of a Suicide

46:48 Self-harm

In Korean folk belief, someone who dies by suicide becomes a 자살귀 (jasalgwi), a particularly restless and potentially dangerous spirit, because they left the world through an act of violent self-ending rather than natural death. Other ghosts in the drama fear being 'sent up' first or being ranked alongside one, treating it as a mark of spiritual instability. The drama uses this folk category to explain why Hye-jin's fellow ghosts are uneasy around her.

This note discusses suicide or self-injury. If you need someone to talk to: in Korea call 109, in the US call or text 988, or find a helpline in your country.

# 패션지 편집자 — Dream Jobs and Korean Work Culture

47:52

Working at a prestigious fashion magazine is a highly coveted career in Korea, associated with glamour and cultural influence. The path Hye-jin describes — studying intensely to pass notoriously competitive hiring exams — reflects the brutal 취업 준비 (job-preparation) culture many young Koreans live through. Her story of dreaming big, landing the job, and then facing 갑질 (gapjil — workplace bullying by those with more power) is a painfully recognizable arc for many Korean viewers.

# 기역 시옷 (G.S.) — Korean Alphabet Swearing

54:28 Mature

Koreans sometimes abbreviate swear words by spelling out just the first consonants in 한글 (Hangul). '기역 시옷' names the letters ㄱ and ㅅ — the initials of a very common vulgar insult (개새끼, literally 'dog's offspring'). Using the alphabet letter names instead of the word itself is a way to swear with plausible deniability, like saying 'B.S.' in English, which is exactly why Geun-sang catches on immediately.

# The Exorcist Reveals Yoo-ri's Identity

61:33

When the exorcist tells Gang-hwa that the woman who has been near him and the baby is a 귀신 (gwisin — a wandering ghost), he is drawing on the specific Korean ghost tradition: unlike Western ghosts, a gwisin is almost always someone who died with unresolved attachment to the living world and remains tied to a specific person or place. Five years of unseen presence next to one's husband and child is precisely the kind of deep earthly longing that keeps a gwisin from moving on.

# Nagging About an Umbrella — Korean Couple Intimacy

67:35

In Korean romantic dramas and everyday life, a partner fussing over whether the other has an umbrella, eaten properly, or dressed warmly is a recognised shorthand for 사랑 (sarang) — love expressed through practical care rather than grand declarations. Yoo-ri's instinct to call after Gang-hwa about the umbrella — even now, knowing what she knows — lands as one of the episode's quietest and most heartbreaking moments of ordinary love.

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