Culture Notes 2020

The Days I Was Forgotten — Korean Culture Notes

8 timestamped notes explaining the Korean cultural context in this episode — customs, idioms, food, honorifics, and history, at the moment each appears on screen. These notes discuss events across the whole episode. To see them revealed scene-by-scene as you watch, use the episode page to find an airing.

# 닭발 (dakbal) – spicy chicken feet

1:31

닭발 (dakbal) are braised or grilled chicken feet coated in a fiery red-pepper sauce — one of Korea's most beloved pojangmacha (street-stall) snacks. The dish is famous for being intensely spicy, which is exactly why Ganghwa is struggling, and why Yuri insists the burn is what makes it satisfying. Ordering a generous portion from a regular customer — a 'dan-gol' (단골) — often earns you extra helpings, as the shop owner here demonstrates.

# 콩순이 (Kongsuni) – children's character

7:57

콩순이 (Kongsuni) is one of the most popular animated characters in South Korea, a small girl doll whose cheerful TV show and toy line are aimed at toddlers and preschoolers. Seeing the song on TV hits Yuri hard because it is exactly the kind of thing a mother would watch with her very young child — a small, ordinary moment she never got to share with Seo-woo.

# 무당 / 퇴마사 – shaman and exorcist

16:49

무당 (mudang) are Korean shamans who communicate with spirits and perform gut (굿) rituals to resolve supernatural disturbances. 퇴마사 (toemaса) refers to an exorcist, a figure drawn from both traditional and Christian-influenced beliefs. Both professions exist on the fringes of mainstream Korean society but remain culturally familiar — the idea that word of a haunting could draw them from 'all corners of the country' reflects how seriously the spirit world is taken in Korean folklore.

# 곰국 (gomguk) – slow-boiled bone broth

23:18

곰국 (gomguk) is a rich, milky broth made by simmering beef bones for many hours — sometimes an entire day. It is considered deeply nourishing and is traditionally made for family members recovering from illness or childbirth. Eun-suk serving it only to Yuri, while the rest of the family eats the regular side dishes, is a quietly loaded act of motherly favouritism that her sister Yeonji immediately calls out.

# Ghost absent from photo

25:19

A widespread belief in Korean (and broader East Asian) ghost lore holds that spirits do not appear in photographs — cameras capture only what the living eye can see. When the restaurant employee's photo shows nothing where the three women were sitting, it plays on this well-known idea, and lands as both eerie and bittersweet: Yuri registers instantly what it means about her own in-between state.

# 자살귀 (jasalgwi) – suicide ghost

46:48 Self-harm

자살귀 (jasalgwi) is a term in Korean folk belief for the ghost of someone who died by suicide. Such spirits are considered particularly restless and dangerous, believed to linger near the living and sometimes to influence vulnerable people. Hyejin's companions mention that she is likely to be 'elevated' first precisely because she is classified this way — it reflects the drama's use of traditional ghost hierarchy.

This note discusses suicide or self-injury. If you need someone to talk to: in Korea call 109, in the US call or text 988, or find a helpline in your country.

# 패션지 편집자 – fashion magazine editor dream

47:52

Working at a prestigious fashion or lifestyle magazine is a highly competitive aspiration in Korea, where the publishing industry is concentrated in Seoul and top editorial jobs are notoriously difficult to break into. Hyejin's description of studying relentlessly to secure the position — only to face 갑질 (gapjil), the Korean term for abuse of power by a superior — reflects a widely recognised workplace dynamic that has become a major social issue in recent years.

# Nagging about the umbrella — a K-drama love language

1:07:35

In Korean culture, constant small nagging — reminding someone to take an umbrella, eat properly, wear a coat — is a widely understood expression of love and care rather than irritation. Yuri doing this to Ganghwa in what may be one of their last ordinary moments together is the drama's way of showing that her love never stopped being practical and present, even when she was invisible.

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